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This blog was made in mind for the women who had been or is currently....... baffled, amused, bewildered, confused, afraid, helpless, emotionally unsure, shy, surprised, curious or disturbed by the way men act or react around them. Whether they have already entered into your life as your boyfriend, a casual friend, your husband.....or even when, out of nowhere, a guy you hardly know happens to be suspected of nursing a crush/infatuation/emotional or sexual attraction on a certain woman that has caught his attention. You.

You may not find the all the answers to discern or to make the prudent choice to act when it comes to facing the man who's "crushing" out the life out of you, who's unbelievably impossible at times or totally getting on your nerves.... but stick around a little more here.......maybe you'll find something i've written that would help you and can apply to your unique "crushing" situation of yours.

Feel the need to give feedback, say something, or ask some sensitive questions you wouldn't dare ask anyone ? Email me at: Crushedwithacrush@hotmail.com. I'd like to be honest with my perspectives and answers as a man.

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Saturday, April 25, 2009

The "Strong, Silent" Man (Introduction Article)

You probably never noticed him. You probably couldn't be bothered about him. But definitely, I believe you must have wondered "where is he coming from" at one point in time in your life.

I could easily say that I am one of many of such men too.

So why the silence ? Why is that man in the corner, keeping to himself and not communicating ? Or maybe, he just happens to shy away from some things that you need to find out ? Why waste all effort into being so inscrutable and mysterious, you might ask yourself ?

The next few (indefinite number of) articles on this blog will focus heavily on: The "Strong, Silent" Man. For many reasons unknown to the feminine eye........ we turn inwards to ourselves in many ways.

But do remember, we do have our own reasons to stay that way. And that makes us (maybe, maybe not) just as volatile as women. (Sorry, no pun or offence intended.)