Bad Girls (Part 1)

We've heard of the Legendary Bad Boy stereotype, that one single guy striding through the masculine crowd, being tough as he should be, going his own way always without a care about anyone else............... because he knows what he wants...... and he'll get it somehow.

But have you ever met his female counterpart ?

Yes, that kind of girl whom you (girls) love to hate, that you guard your boyfriends from, that men absolutely do not want mum and dad to know they're going out with, that has inspired many songwriters to get pop artistes to sing hit songs like: "Maneater", "Buttons.". The Bad Girl.

There are some, very appealing attributes about bad girls that we men secretly like and compell us to do certain "imposssible" things. And they aren't necessarily always about sex and anything sexual.

Somehow, there are some men (myself included) who have a soft spot for bad girls.
Who can't stop themselves embracing their indirect paternal instincts and switch on our sensitive sides, to cater to the emotional needs of these women.
Most of these women have issues, but then again, who doesn't ?

I have always felt, that for these women, their bad girl image, their bad girl identity is like a highly decorated military medal to them.

They seem to embrace it, show it with pride, and accomplishment. They show it because it shows that: "Hey, i want to be just like the nice, sweet, innocent girl that you always like to chat up and do stuff with, but i can't do that ! I wish i was like that but some parts in my life just doesn't work out the way i'd like it to be. And i just can't help stop myself from being like this. So what i'm going to do is that i'm going to let this image of mine empower me and give me strength. So that i can never be anyone's bitch and can be more of what i am than i was before."

Some of these women may have gone through some inevitable and very bad experiences at one point in time more often than most women,
Or maybe some of them chose freely to adapt this image, beccause they feel defensive about themselves or perhaps because of many different mysterious reasons.
Who knows ? Maybe it could be that her problems might be personally too negative and personal to share.........difficult to understand, accept or sympathize....... by anyone.

Stay tuned as we go deeper into this subject in the future.