Roxanne

I believe that almost all men would find lingerie advertisements very enticing. The image of a very beautiful woman caught seen wearing even the most unpretentious, dullest piece of underwear is enough to make a man explode. I am no exception. But i am doing something about it, for myself.

Men truly are visual creatures (pigs) when it comes to women. Blame us as much as you want, but we are going to naturally be this way for a very very long time. It is a degrading issue that is very difficult to rectify. It is difficult for us to see a woman the way we ideally should when this happens.

What can you do about it ?

Now, i am not saying that you wear a two piece lingerie outfit everyday to work at a strip club, but my point is that you should dress as modestly as you can, whenever the situation, wherever you go.

Yes, you can still retain your personal style of fashion and still project yourself as an individual, and more importantly, a lady who does not need men perceiving her as a whore.

Subtle and noticing women can be, you can use your natural instincts to notice hints of immodesty in the way you dress and correct your own style. I am not entirely a fashionable man, but i roughly know at first glance, the image a woman unknowingly/knowingly projects herself in the public eye. And in this fast paced ever changing world, not even i could spare a second thought at an immodestly dressed woman, or even spare her the benefit of the doubt for that matter. If i had the luxury of time to engage in conversation to a woman like that, i would be speechless in a negative way.

Perhaps more men than women like myself, are in need to desperately straighten up and get our mind out of the gutter. The both of us really need to do something about it. But if you can beat me to it, i would pin a medal on you.

I believe that that there is a time and place for everything, and the fact that we are not perfect beings means that mistakes will happen even at the most crucial moments.

And there are very few rare moments that parallel its importance, than having to be socially associated with a lady for the first time, with a chance of possibly growing a fantastic relationship between both parties.